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    • #7236 Reply
      Choice Maker
      Keymaster

      Don’t be embarrassed. It turns out that a lot of guys have fantasies that involve themselves getting circumcised. Like, a lot of guys.

      The most common such fantasy for a man is the desire for a dominating female partner who will demand that he get cut. It’s an intense desire to have their partner pressure them into a circumcision that they secretly also want themselves. There’s a whiff of BDSM in the air here and a lot more guys than you would think find this scenario incredibly and intensely erotic.

    • #7254 Reply
      Bruce Douglas Thurston
      Guest

      I have sexual fantasies about wanting to be circumcised. Since I am single and do not have a wife or girlfriend I get my pleasures when I masturbate. I fantasy about young handsome men wanting me to get circumcised. Then I fantasy about me getting it done. I then fantasy that since I got circumcised and like it so much, I get other guys to do it, too. I make up all kinds of stories about getting other guys to get circumcised, and in my fantasies [only] I actually force men to get circumcised or they can’t even do things like coming on to my property until they get circumcised. After they get circumcised they can come on to my property. Sounds pretty nutty, huh? When I first started masturbating just before I turned 11 years old I would twist the foreskin until I ejaculated my semen. Finally, very soon after that it dawned on me that guys who are circumcised have the entire head of their penises exposed, and since I wanted to masturbate like a guy who is circumcised, I pushed the foreskin completely off of the head so that it would be exposed and then I went through the masturbating process. After I jacked off I wiped off my head and pushed the foreskin back over the head which I hated because I want my head exposed 24/7. Bruce

    • #7341 Reply
      Martin
      Guest

      Its true at some erotic level that this fantasy may be more common than we realise.
      I think I’d just like it if my wife decided I was going to be cut and took me down to the clinic to have it done. No discussion just a case of taking my orders, obey and having that unfinished business sorted, the package tidied up to please her. Of course there would be other numerous benefits to it.

    • #7349 Reply
      Jack
      Guest

      Hmm. A surprising number of partners mentioned circumcision while I was still hooded up and with one partner we played with exposing my glans before sex with medical glue (as silly as that sounds). That didn’t work because of the push/pull detaching the glue, but it was a great feeling in most of my trousers and I kept doing that.

      I guess I enjoy a feeling of nakedness and being ‘ready for action’ and barely restrained energy, though not so much exhibition/actual nudity. Being circumcised (and underwear-free) definitely pushes that button for me, and my op followed fairly quickly on the heels of giving up underwear.

      Sure, I can give the pg13 explanation which is that I lived in a hot country, so comfort and hygiene called for going free and getting cut respectively, but while that is true and a definite plus, theres more to it than that!

    • #7785 Reply
      Subrata
      Guest

      I always fantasised that a clean cut tool will be most attractive to my partner.

    • #8498 Reply
      tejus
      Guest

      Hello,

      I think been thinking about circumcision for the last 10 years, but more serously for the last 6 years. I’m not sure why. I don’t have any problems. I think it is just sexually exciting. Maybe just for a change. I am also cusious what the difference would be, and I wonder if my partner would find it different in a good way. I think I am becomeing obsessed with the idea. Is this normal? I feel wierd for having these thoughts. i dont want to do something i would regret. at the same time i have already lived half my life with foreskin, so i don’t think i would miss it enough to be regretful. i have not yet discussed it with my wife. i have come close a few times. then i think i am being silly. but i do want to ask her what she would think about it. but i dont want her to think i am crazy.

      • #8500 Reply
        John
        Guest

        Hey saw your message. I had a similar situation. If you wanted to chat off line, I could talk you though that conversation

    • #8506 Reply
      tejus
      Guest

      john,

      I havent meantioned anything to my wife in 10 years. it will catch her off guard. she is not even thinking about it. i am wondering how to being it up. how to handle is she things that’s and odd idea. then what next steps to take in the conversation. she should definately be part of the decision. afew times i thought about just getting it dont behind her back when she was out of town, but then common sense kicked in and told me that would not be the right thing to do.
      if you have any thoughts you can email me.

      vhargarbanpinnu@gmail.com

    • #8562 Reply
      tejus
      Guest

      you see, i am from india and my wife is from mexico so neither of us know anything about circumcision

    • #8732 Reply
      Bohrmian
      Guest

      I too have such an interest in circumcision, mainly because I was not done as an infant. I find that my interest is that I am so interested in how infants are done. Several videos on YouTube about infants being circumcised, love to see the boys loosing their foreskins, knowing that it will be that way for the rest of their lives. So wished that I could have experienced that.
      So am I weird for having such on interest in little boys penises. It is not in a sexual manner to see the little boys penis, only to see him being circumcised.
      As for tejus, perhaps you might let you wife see you with your foreskin pulled back. If she asks then that you allow you to bring up the subject about liking the glans bare and you might consider having your penis circumcised.

    • #8816 Reply
      Charlie
      Guest

      Circumcision has also had my attention since early in life. I knew I knew I wanted to be circumcised and finally did it. The best thing I’ve done for me. But in the years before I got circumcised I fantasized about it all of the time.

    • #8899 Reply
      Katie
      Guest

      Looking to others for ideas in discussing circumcision with my partner. I’d like him to have it but not sure about asking or even bringing it up.

      • #8919 Reply
        Anthony
        Guest

        Hi Katie –

        I think I’ve said this in another thread, but I’ll suggest just asking “Have you ever thought about being circumcised?” Or when you’re in bed, skin him back, look at it, and say something like “Hmmmm. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be circumcised?” Depending on his response to either, you could then follow with “Well, it would make oral more spontaneous.”

        As a guy who was interested in this for years, I can say that I’d have welcomed it if any woman I’d ever been with would have broached the topic. It’s something that can be a bit difficult or awkward to bring up as a guy as well – I always wondered how would I ever talk about this with a woman I was with – would she think I was weird? Would she freak out? Unlike so many others these days, I don’t see anything wrong with expressing a preference that is different from the facts on the ground, so to speak. Also as a guy cut as an adult in my early 50s, I have no regrets, and honestly wish I’d done it years ago.

      • #8949 Reply
        John
        Guest

        Hey Katie,

        I had this very conversation withy gf before my circumcision. We finally had an adult conversation about and booked the procedure the next week. If you want I can walk you through the conversation.

      • #39595 Reply
        Mike
        Guest

        Katie, I have a great deal of advice, is their an email address I can reach you at to share my ideas/avice with you?

      • #45077 Reply
        tres
        Guest

        Katie,

        What my ex-wife did, rather sneakily, is told me she had a friend who was pregnant and expecting a boy and her and her husband are discussing circumcising him. She made this up, but she was testing my reaction. All I said is well, that must be a tough decision. Then she asked me what i thought she should tell her. I asked the religion on the friend. The friend was Muslim,so I said well,I guess the decision has already been made then. I said if I were raised in a Mulsim family I would already be circumcised. then she asked, would I prefer that or would i feel like i was missing out on something? I said I don’t care either way. That is where it all started going down the road of discussing it.

    • #21279 Reply
      Mohit
      Guest

      I am a bisexual guy from India. And I have to admit that i fantasize circumcised cocks too hard. I am uncut but wish I was circumcised.

      I love white cut cocks.

    • #21281 Reply
      Mohit
      Guest

      I love to watch Visible penis lines of cut guys in briefs, as it is too erotic to see the protruding corona of the cised heads.
      I often masterbate like cut guys, but I afraid of loosing foreskin this late (29yo). I wish I was cised earliest.

      • #29603 Reply
        _blank_
        Guest

        Mohit I am from India as well and have very similar fantasies wanna discuss?

    • #21282 Reply
      Mohit
      Guest

      I even try to keep my foreskin pulled back to simulate cut cock for hours.

      • #45955 Reply
        Alan
        Guest

        I’m not circumcised, 22 years old, married. My now wife, lived with a “cut” guy for six months before I knew her, broke up with him, met me soon after.
        She much prefers my penis because there’s less friction. So when we have sex a couple times in a row, she doesn’t get sore. Nope. We never use lube. I pull the foreskin back when I enter her initially so I feel her around my penis.

    • #21284 Reply
      Mohit
      Guest

      I have collected huge stash of cut cock pics from over the internet such as tumblr, yahoo groups, google images, milliondics, porn sites, even reddits.

    • #21375 Reply
      Charlie
      Guest

      Well Mohit I think you should live out your fantasy and get circumcised. And no it’s not too late in your life. I believe there is a good circumcision doctor in India. I think he has circumcision videos on YouTube. I kept my foreskin retracted all the time too before I got circumcised, it just felt better yo me so I understand why you do it.

    • #39734 Reply
      peter
      Guest

      It was always my fantasy to have a circumcision and it finally happened in 2014. I love being circumcised and I love women who love it.

      alchemy9@eircom.net is my email

    • #40306 Reply
      svdmvs
      Guest

      I had a fantasy for decades, before i was done, so don’t wait, let do it, you will be so happy after.

    • #40485 Reply
      American
      Guest

      Anyone get circumcised because they decided to circumcise their son out of solidarity? Also has anyone circumcised based of statistics in their state?

    • #40577 Reply
      Trey Gardner
      Guest

      Hi my name is Trey and am 31 years old.i still have a full foreskin.but I want to learn about curcumcision.sounds like a good thing to do.any thoughts here?

    • #40589 Reply
      Graham
      Guest

      For me, I think the sexual fantasy element comes from the idea of modifying yourself to suit the wishes / preferences of your wife or partner, male or female. To get circumcised because someone close really prefers it to having a foreskin is a bold personal step – so it ought to draw two people closely together in their desires.

    • #40591 Reply
      Pauk
      Guest

      Hi guys, i’m seeking some help from you, if anyone could be kind enough just to tell me what they think about my new fantasy.

      Like many guys in this thread, i fantasize of being cut. Not just circumcised (like a purely medical thing, but having the foreskin cut off to expose my glans forever and a new way of having sex, masturbating.
      I started by tying my frenulum as i thought my dick would look cleaner without it, and now i’m kinda obsessed with the idea of being cut.
      I feel like a weirdo, a bit ill at ease, i feel like it’s anormal wanting to modify something that is working perfectly well
      Also, i read many many articles and testimonies of guys who had it done as adults, and it’s quite scary that the sensations may change a lot.

      Bit even knowing all that, with every passing day, i dream about it more and more. I went to see 2 utologists who told me that it’s reallu unnecessary to have it done. My wife is against the idea also.
      But the more think about it, the more i crave for it.

      Since a few years i’m constantly wearing glans rings, so my glans is constantly out, i only remove it to shower.

      What do you think? This obsession is driving me crazy!

    • #40593 Reply
      bmj
      Guest

      Does your obsession hurt anybody?
      No?
      If not, you shouldn’t worry.
      It can vanish by itself by the time
      If it continues, then you must
      decide either accept it forever and enjoy this fantasy
      or
      Get circumcised
      That’s the only option that will finish your obsession
      Don’t worry about wife, she will accept. If course you will notice changes.
      Could you regret it?
      May be, but most adult circumcised don’t
      Anyway, It’s your decision

    • #40599 Reply
      Pauk
      Guest

      Thank you for your reply!

      The thing that most bothers me is that i can’t decide whether to get it done or not.

      I’m really scared of the loss of sensations, you find so much scary posts/articles on the internet, i don’t know what to believe/trust.

      Usually i’m not one who dwells on stuff for long, either i go ahead or i forget it.
      But in this case, the indecision is the real struggle.

    • #40603 Reply
      peter
      Guest

      I was like you, waited years but in the end regretted waiting. Circumcision has so enhanced sex for my wife and I. I love being circumcised.

    • #41500 Reply
      Kevin
      Guest

      At 27 year of age I got circumcised! It’s great guys! Don’t wait to do it.just get er done. It the best all around! Looks awesome too

    • #41501 Reply
      Landon Carter
      Guest

      Yes I agree st 37 years of age.my foreskin is gone.lovr being circumcised.circumcised is the best fellas. Yup it’s great looking and great for sex and masturbating.g et it done and don’t look back.so easy to clean. Wife loves it very much.

    • #45204 Reply
      J90
      Guest

      Anybody else enjoy the feeling of the glans against material when walking around? I didn’t get that with foreskin, but now whether it’s jeans, suit trousers, shorts or slacks I’m reminded everything is clean and bare from the motion of the fabric over the head. Only drawback is the hair-trigger response if I’m turned on, even slightly- can even be self-sustaining when I remember the reason the nerves won’t stop firing and get covered up is that I’m circumcised.

      • #45347 Reply
        Reuben
        Guest

        I wouldn’t say I enjoy it, but it is something I notice, and did also when I kept for foreskin retracted. More so if I’ve made myself a bit sensitive by over enthusiastic masturbation the day before! I do remember just before getting myself cut deliberately keeping foreskin forward thinking never going to get this covered feeling again and to try and remember what it feels like for comparison.

      • #45930 Reply
        Martin
        Guest

        Yes I love the feeling of my bare glans rubbing against my trousers. I very rarely wear underwear these days so there is always a certain stimulation when I walk.

        • #46302 Reply
          J90
          Guest

          It’s a great feeling, to the point where i wonder if I shouldn’t evangelise more among the cut as adults crowd to try it. Losing one sensation deadening, moisture trapping layer is great, two is better, lol.

          The bare head/tight skin on erection/jeans combo was enough that soon after I would occasionally have to take breaks while walking. Contact ‘through’ jeans is awesome too.

    • #45350 Reply
      Will B
      Guest

      I think a lot of guys fantasize about being circumcised by a female doctor, as well.

    • #45351 Reply
      Laurel
      Guest

      I have been wanting to get circumcised for 4 years, after i got divorced, but i only want it done by a female doctor. So far i have not found one that circumcises adults. So I’m still waiting. I even tried to find a female Mohel, but again they told me they old do babies. I came close 2 years ago when i was dating a pediatrician and after telling her my fantasy, she said she could do it, but then COVID shutdowns started and delayed everything and we ended up breaking up before she could do it.

      • #45376 Reply
        matt
        Guest

        I wasn’t circumcised by a female doctor, but I did get taken to a circumcision clinic by my friends mum who’se own sons and husband were all circumcised. she stayed with me the entire time, and the nurse was female, and my check up three days later was undertaken by a female nurse. i recall them all being very kind and complimentary and reassuring. The nurse who did my aftercare check up said her own husband had been circumcised in the past year and that if i wanted a man to talk to, she’d give me his number. I never did though. I was perfectly happy being doted on by these lovely kind ladies. It was quite a profound experience for a teenage boy and one I strongly encourage others to undertake for themselves.

    • #45391 Reply
      G S
      Guest

      I’ve fantasized about getting circumcised for many years. I wore my foreskin retracted for years. I have a Prince Albert piercing, and everything just worked “better” when the foreskin was retracted. Even when masturbating, I never used the foreskin. Earlier this year I was circumcised. I’m quite happy for being able to experience BOTH SIDES. In hindsight, I prefer being cut, but the time with the foreskin was a good time…. lol

      • #45394 Reply
        matt
        Guest

        A prince albert definitely looks great on a circumcised penis. I’m very keen to get a prince albert myself, but it’d definitely have to be a female who does the piercing.

    • #45713 Reply
      Jack
      Guest

      I have always fantasized about Circumcision.Just thinking about getting circumcised gives me an instant reaction .Finally I decided to get the snip .My wife and I are very satisfied with the results.It looks better it is cleaner smells good and I am always ready for a blow job or great sex.however masturbation is a little bit more difficult.With an uncircumcised penis all you have to do is cover and uncover the glans.With a circumcised penis it is not possible because the glans is fully exposed and it cannot be covered by any skin.A circumcised penis needs a different technique you have to keep tugging the remaining skin attached to the neck.you can go dry which I prefer or use a lubricant.Sometimes I use my own saliva and I rub the remaining frenulum other times I wet the whole glans I like the texture of my bare glans.Sometimes I rub my Circumcision scar until the glans swells and then I ejaculate.It seems than my glans got bigger and thicker since my Circumcision.My wife likes the feeling when I penetrate and when I withdraw then edge of the glans rubs her whole vagina including her G spot because there is no skin in the way.then my glans swells and I ejaculate .My wife feels my glans filling her vagina and she gets a fantastic orgasm.I stay in her until we are completely exhausted.It seems that with my Circumcision I live my puberty again exploring my new cut tool in masturbation and making love.Circumcision did for me wonderful things.I love being circumcised

    • #45852 Reply
      trey
      Guest

      I got circumcised 2 years ago when why wife started talking to me about using a male chastity device. That turned her on and apparently she liked being dominant in her relationships. We found out pretty quickly that foreskin is a problem with those devices. It had to be removed frequently in order to clean the smegma underneath the foreskin. Also, there were a lot of comfort issues, such as the foreskin getting pinched, or messy urination. So I got circumcised. The surgeon told me that a “low and tight” style is the most hygienic, so that’s what I did.

    • #45856 Reply
      Jack
      Guest

      Low and tight is the style I got since my Circumcision at the age of 23.The glans is fully exposed and I cannot cover even a small portion of my glans with the remaining skin.It is cleaner smells good and it is always ready for a blow job or great sex.When erect the skin is nice and tight on the shaft.

    • #45929 Reply
      Peter Sampson
      Guest

      I was always curious about circumcision and preferred the appearance of circumcised penises. In my teens I banded my foreskin so that it stayed retracted and looked circumcised. My wife assumed that I was circumcised and it took some time for me to explain how I felt about this.
      We decided that I would have a circumcision and that each of our male children would be circumcised as infants. This we did and for total satisfaction my wife had herself circumcised whilst in hospital for other gyn.ops. Her circumcision entailed total excision of inner labia retaining her clitoris.
      We are consequently exponents for all to be circumcised and can confirm that our sexuality has been enhanced by what God instructed to His ancient people.

      • #45931 Reply
        Martin
        Guest

        Did your wife have her clitoral hood removed along with her inner labia?
        I like the neat clean look of a woman who has been circumcised, obviously leaving the clitoris intact. I think it compliments the look of a permanently bare male glans.

      • #45932 Reply
        Will B
        Guest

        Labia plasty is less severe version of this. The inner labia is trimmed instead of completely excised. Labia plasty is a largely cosmetic procedure, which also retains the clitoris.

    • #45941 Reply
      matt
      Guest

      My partner has wanted a labiaplasty all the time I’ve known her, due to asymmetry. What she doesn’t realise is that most women are asymmetric. I’ve known very few who’ve had perfect symmetry. It’s not something that bothers men, women do this for themselves. i almost think it’s s shame to trim or remove the labia, just as it’s a shame to pull the petals from a flower, but it’s the womans choice and I’d ultimately support them in their choice. I think a much more common problem in women is a buried clitoris and a non-retracting clitoris hood. Whilst boys are fixed with a circumcision, women live a lifetime with a covered clitoris. I find it very sexy when a womans clitoris is fully exposed.

    • #45948 Reply
      Peter & Natasha
      Guest

      I have no clitoral hood – it’s how I was born. I regard myself as being naturally circumcised. I sometimes refer to myself as being circumcised even though I haven’t actually had an operation. I love it and so does Peter. I have very large labia but I love them so I won’t be having any removal of them! Natasha xx

      • #45950 Reply
        matt
        Guest

        That’s perfect Natasha. Keep your beautiful labia. You’re lucky to have an unhooded clitoris. My partners clitoris is very small and kind of stuck inside a tight triangle hood. She even says “If I were a boy, I’d have been circumcised.” She actually has a small 2mm slit in the hood as if a doctor or nurse has at some point tried to alleviate the situation, but has no recollection of such an intervention and hasnt done it herself, but its definitely slightly divided into two. If it weren’t I’d not be able to see her clitoris at all. Maybe it was done as a baby. People often associate female circumcisions with black girls, but I know two white girls who were done as kids. One grew up in Kenya and her and her brother were both circumcised and the other chose to have it done during a visit to the middle east, permanently revealing her large clitoris – much larger than that of my partners, along with total inner labia removal which I consider a real shame, personally. She said she wanted a perfect pussy. It makes for a perfect photograph maybe, but that doesn’t make for a perfect pussy necessarily. Porn probably influences girls as much as boys, if not more when it comes to getting circumcised to neaten up the appearance of the genitals and increase personal confidence.

    • #46300 Reply
      Laurel
      Guest

      I was finally last month able to get a long time fantasy made happen. I always wanted to get circucmised by a female doctor after my divorce. 2 years ago I was dating a female Pediatrician. I reconnected with her last year and we started dating again. Since i bought it up previously, she said that she could perform my circucision in her office for free. I agreed. It was so exciting and sexy. We recorded it also. This last month we have had amazing sex after re-watching to video. It has made us both so horny.

      • #46313 Reply
        GS
        Guest

        WOW, what a fantasy to come true!

    • #46301 Reply
      Martin
      Guest

      Hi Laurel Can you tell us which type of circumcision she gave you, I am guessing it was a mutual choice.

    • #46305 Reply
      Laurel
      Guest

      Martin,

      She didn’t have adult devices avaialable, but she did have a Gomco that fit and she used that.

      • #46328 Reply
        Will B
        Guest

        Laurel

        Sounds like you had an amazing experience! A lot of men would certainly envy you! Did she cut you high or low, loose, moderate, or tight? I’m guessing at least fairly tight. Frenulum removed, retained or partially retained?

    • #46331 Reply
      laurel
      Guest

      Honestly don’t know. She was the expert so I let her do what she wanted. When soft the head is exposed and the skin comes up just behind the head. When hard, the skin slides back an inch

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