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January 5, 2022 at 1:25 pm #45790JatinGuest
Do you think demand for adult circumcision increasing in uncut majority countries like UK, China, India? What are your observations?
January 5, 2022 at 4:45 pm #45792CutlateGuest
I think popularity of circumcision is strongly linked to what is seen in porn, as per the post “Has porn made circumcision ‘trendy'”, which I see that you have commented on.
Also, I’ve often pondered whether there’s a cycle that goes:
* Vast majority of men are circumcised – e.g. Australia up to the 1970s (in this case for perceived medical/hygiene reasons).
* Circumcision starts being regarded as unnecessary and “mutilation”.
* Based on this advice, parents (including mothers with no experience of an uncircumcised man) start to stop circumcising sons.
* Circumcision drops to very low levels (~10%) over the next few decades.
* As a result, women are more likely to have had multiple sexual partners than previous generations and therefore more likely to have had both cut and uncut partners decide the circumcised member is far preferable.
* Some of these women elect to circumcise their sons based on their personal experience. Others will still regard it as unnecessary or something that they want to leave up to their son to decide when he is older.
* Circumcision rates creep up, which they appear to be doing in Australia.
January 5, 2022 at 9:03 pm #45793KennethGuest
Yes, I think demand is increasing in the UK. It is notable how many circumcision clinics have been opened in London in recent years. I know two British friends were circumcised as adults. (I’m British and had a routine infant circumcision).
January 9, 2022 at 7:28 pm #45821CedricGuest
Does anyone know what the Circ rates are in Mexico? Specifically Guadalajara. I will be going there soon for university from the US. i am not circucumcised, but would like to know what the local women there might expect so i don’t encounter any surprises.
January 11, 2022 at 5:08 pm #45851GrahamGuest
I agree with you about the number of clinics across the UK and notably in London offering circumcision. There seems to be quite a choice, many performing the procedure for adult men like myself. I think it is a sign that it is becoming more common with increased demand, I guess off the back raised awareness via the Internet and forums such as this. This has to be a good thing.
January 11, 2022 at 9:51 pm #45853KennethGuest
The increase in the Muslim population in the UK is certainly increasing demand, but there is also a generation of men who didn’t get a routine infant circumcision and are now wanting to get done as an adult.
January 12, 2022 at 4:36 pm #45861OliverGuest
The published rates for circumcision in Mexico are low but it is fashionable in some communities. From my experiences, it is preferable but not a show stopper with Mexican women. Circumcision is readily available in most parts of Mexico.
January 13, 2022 at 5:23 am #45869mattGuest
My phimosis made me terribly envious of the small number of circumcised boys during my childhood. To make matters worse, my best friends were circumcised too. It was like a constant reminder that I needed to get it done. I finally got it done at 17.
January 13, 2022 at 6:52 pm #45875JackGuest
I too suffered from phimosis in a country where about 30 percent of men are circumcised.When I was 10 ,I compared my penis with my friend who was neatly circumcised.I thought his penis looked better than mine.When I grew up I made some research about Circumcision and the more I read about it the more I wanted to be circumcised.I envied circumcised guys in group shower after gym or when I went to nude beaches.Masturbation was easy with a foreskin because basically you fuck your own foreskin.When I started sleeping with girls then the problems came,torn foreskin and frenulum pain etc……Then when I was 23 my girlfriend at the time told me I should have my extra skin removed.I did not decide then.My girlfriend left me and I thought it would be a good time for my penis to be out of commission so I went to a local urologist and I was finally circumcised.My girlfriend came back and I told her what I had done.She enjoyed a lot my new tool and she gave me more blow jobs and more sex.Finally she left me for good but I appreciate that she was the person responsible for my Circumcision.Now it is my wife who benefits from my cut tool.I wish my mother had me circumcised at birth but then I could not compare circumcised and uncircumcised right?
January 15, 2022 at 6:25 am #45881Don AmoreGuest
I have seen amateur porn from India when the name is clearly Hindu but the man in the clip, has clearly had an adult circumcision. DR Sachin Kuber runs a youtube channel dedicated to his circumcision clinic. I think circumcision is more common in India than we think. due to porn and influence of porn stars like Sunny Leone. I also have seen reviews for Dr pollack clinic and Gold coast circumcision blog left by Indian mothers and Indian men born in Western countries. I think non-muslim Indian men do get circumcised but its kept secret our of fear of stigma. I remember reading a uk study that non Muslims Indian men born in UK had a circumcision rate of 8%.
I think the rate is growing in China, eg the shang ring.. probably among rich portions of the population
I have friends who are from Argentina, Chile and Mexico they say that many rich urban families, almost 10% will opt for circumcision as a status symbol.
January 23, 2022 at 10:34 am #45938sanjeevGuest
I come from a Hindu family and I live in the US and I am circumcised. I was not at birth because it’s not routinely done with Hindus, however, when I started dating I could tell immediately that it was a problem. I had several times where the girl was surprised. Sometimes I would get comments like “isn’t that supposed to be removed at birth?”. Or comments about odor or how to touch it. It was very foreign to American Women. It wasn’t until i got married to a French-Canadian girl that we talked about it. Her experience had only been with circumcised men and she preferred that. She mentioned it while we were dating, but brought it up again a few times after marriage. She even showed me some research on how common it is. After one night after a few drinks we were in bed after sex and she seemed disappointed and I asked her what was wrong. In a more subtle way, she basically told me the sex was better with her exes and she thought foreskin was the problem. That was what utimately convinced me. She was very happy when I told here I was going to do it. She did all the research and also found out that our medical insurance would pay for it. She made a consultation appt. and went with me. We made an appointment for the procedure for 2 weeks later. At the end of that week, we received a call from the Urologist’s office that there was a cancellation for this Friday at 1pm. My wife picked me up on her lunch break and took me to the Doctor and we left about 1.5 hours later. She dropped me off at home, but had to then go back to work. When she came home at 6, i was resting but she was really excited and so adrenalized, but I told her it’s bandaged up and she was disppointed that she could not see it right away. Also, she wanted to help take care of the wound. I could not sleep that night due to some discomfort, but in the morning she removed the bandage and cleaned the wound as the doctor instructed. She cleaned everything. After the dryed blood was removed she said it will look beautiful when it’s healed. She said it would look like a work of art. I thought that was funny, but also comforting because of all the negative comments i heard from girls during my teen years. Anyway, everything healed and worked out as planned. My wife is still a big supporter of circumcision and years ago she told her younger sister to get her son done. So now I know that my SIL and her husband knows about me doing this which is still a little awkward. But what everyone says turned out to really be true. I wished I had done it much sooner.
January 28, 2022 at 1:53 pm #45985Don AmoreGuest
Glad u had it done. My Indian/Fijian guy friends are all uncut and dont talk about circumcision. Of my Indian female friends many are pro circumcision, for example one of my friends is 4th generation NRI, when her baby brother was born she encouraged her mother to have him circumcised, the mom considered it but decided not because of cost. Another friend said she would 100% have her future sons circumcised as long as her future mother in law wasnt too conservative.
I was circumcised at Gentle Circumcision Clinic in LA by DR Malhotra, during the procedure I wanted to know his status and if he would have his kids cut but it wasnt appropriate to ask. I had a long thick foreskin, it would trap moisture and odor. I would have flare ups of sore red and white scaly patches, my family doctor did a biopsy it turned out to be benign, stating that the moisture was causing an overactive inflammatory response and prescribed a steroid cream. I lived like this for 4 years because I believed intacto crap about pain and loss of sensation until one day I got sick and tired of it and was willing to do anything to make it stop. Groups like this one, where adult men speak of their experience help form my decision. When I told my wife I was considering circumcision, she made an appointment the next day and drove me to the procedure two weeks after. That that was 8 years ago no flare ups since. Being circumcised is cleaner, feels and looks better, I regret not having done sooner.
January 30, 2022 at 9:27 pm #46004sanjeevGuest
I belive it. I also know many Hindu women who circumcised their son that they had in the US. It’s not so common in the UK though. I wish that would change because there are so many benefits. I think it an issue of education, and partly cost since it is a private pay prodecure there. Many of my Muslim friends know I am circucmised and they are all very supportive. In fact, they find being uncircumciced to be very wierd and I know at least one Muslim female friend who flat out will not sleep with any uncircumcised man. I have known her for a long time and she has been very vocal about how gross she thinks that it. Yes, she has a cultural bias, but that doesn’t make it a bad idea.
January 25, 2022 at 11:51 pm #45968TreyGuest
Hi ,How do I convince my girlfriend Jana that circumcised is better in the long run?I really want to have my foreskin cut off.Like some guys here I do have a long foreskin. She likes foreskin though .tough decision.thanks .
January 26, 2022 at 10:56 am #45970CharlieGuest
Trey, this is a dilemma for sure! If I may ask, in what country do you reside? Has she had any experience with a circumcised penis?
If she is open to discuss circumcision, it would seem to me that she would be open to hearing your desires regarding what you want for you.
When you are together in a sexual situation perhaps you should pull your foreskin back and tell her you really like the way it feels to have your glans exposed and your also like the way it looks. Get her to handle your penis, even masturbate you while you hold the skin back tightly and describe the sensations you get. She may enjoy seeing your glans swell as you get more excited.
Also, very important is the lack of oder that even a cleaned uncircumcised penis gets after the foreskin remains covering the head. It just happens. Exposed head is just cleaner and beneficial to both you and her.
Get her mind on a new sexual adventure with a circumcised penis. Very likely she will be able to feel you more when you are in her, I know that’s one of the things my wife noticed and really loves.
Emotional buy in is important.
Hopefully she will want you to be happy with your penis. Tell her you want to be a part of her pleasure as you please her, it’s a shared win. Best of luck to you. Let the forum know how this progresses for you.
January 28, 2022 at 4:40 pm #45987KennethGuest
Have you told her that you would like to get circumcised? Some women may tell their partner that they like foreskin so as not to hurt feelings, but I have never met a woman who genuinely prefers a man to be uncircumcised. If you want to get it done she will probably end up being sympathetic – and once she’s experienced your circumcised penis she will become very much in favour.
January 28, 2022 at 5:00 pm #45989jackGuest
I too had a very long foreskin.One of my earliest girlfriend told me that I should have my extra skin cut off.Her precedent boyfriend was an american and like most americans he was circumcised.I did not get circumcised then. We broke up and I thought it would be a good time for my penis to be out of commission.So I went to a local urologist and he circumcised me.My girlfriend came back and she was very happy with my new cut tool.It smells better, looks better and she gave me a blow job every day.She left me again but I am grateful for it is because of her that I now enjoy a circumcised penis.My present wife is also happy with my circumcision.She had many partners before me and only one was circumcised and she tells me he was her best lover ever.
January 31, 2022 at 9:21 am #46015TreyGuest
I’m from Canada.She still likes the foreskin but is listening to my wish of being circumcised.she will feel me inside her better for sure.a win win for both of us. Probably will take place soon,i hope.we are still talking about circumcision. She’s a great gal.so I’m sure she will see why I want to be foreskin free. I know alot of guys who have circumcised penises and are very happy they are. Even as adults.some of them are really encouraging me to get circumcised.
January 31, 2022 at 9:58 am #46016mattGuest
Find some pictures off nicely circumcised guys and show her. She’ll probably agree it looks great and be OK with it. The women I’ve met who know what a circumcision is are unanimously positive about a man being circumcised and a small number won’t sleep with an uncut man – and thats in a non-circumcising country.
January 31, 2022 at 1:14 pm #46018KennethGuest
Well done. I hope that all goes well for you; I hope that you can get circumcised very soon.
January 31, 2022 at 11:45 am #46017CharlieGuest
Trey, it’s great to hear that she is listening to you and what you desire.
That’s a real plus!
I was circumcised as an adult so I’ve experienced both sides of this, as has my wife and she truly loved that I did circumcision. I’m confident your girlfriend will as well.
Let the forum know how everything goes for you.